Recovery ✔. Now what? Self Assessment
There are a lot of factors to consider before committing to becoming an eating disorder peer support provider. And it takes a strong person (like you!) to do the work of getting to know themselves well enough to decide if they're ready. At this point, you may be 100% clear that you are ready; or, like most people, you are confident; but still not sure. To assist you in this process, the next section consists of an extensive self assessment, broken down into specific sections, to inspire contemplation; and hopefully help you get the answers you seek.
Assessment Instructions:
Complete the following assessment. Each question can be answered with a Yes or No response. Scoring instructions will be provided in the next section.
Section One: Belief in Personal Abilities (13 Questions)
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Do you believe you are capable of accomplishing your goals?
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Do you believe you have healthy and realistic aspirations and goals?
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Are you able to see your accomplishments without an expectation of perfection?
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Are you able to separate your value and worth from your productivity?
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Are you able to relinquish control?
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Do you know how to navigate situations, even when things are going well?
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Are you able to soothe yourself when you make mistakes or feel embarrassed?
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Are you able to see and acknowledge your value and worth, even if others do not?
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Do you have a healthy sense of self-esteem?
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Would you describe yourself as special?
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Can you list your unique talents and abilities?
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Are you able to sit with your feelings and emotions?
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Are you working towards filling any major voids in your life?
Section Two: Relationship with Food and Body (9 Questions)
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Do you use food as a distraction or a way to soothe yourself?
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Do you use food to fill voids in your life?
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Do you connect your weight, size or the amount of food you consume to your sense of success?
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Do you feel the need to explain or justify the amount of food you eat?
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Do you ever feel uncomfortable eating with others?
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If they eat less than you?
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If they are in smaller bodies than you?
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If they are consuming less calories than you?
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If/when you are in a group, if everyone decides to make “healthy” food selections, does that influence what you order?
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Do you restrict or limit specific groups of foods for reasons other than allergies?
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Do you have a strong desire to lose weight or make modifications to your physical appearance?
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Do you fear gaining weight?
Section Three: Relationships with others
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Do you have at least one person you consider to be a true friend?
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If you are in a romantic relationship, would you feel comfortable describing it as “healthy”?
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Do you have healthy boundaries in your personal and professional relationships?
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Are you able to trust others with your true self?
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Do you feel the need to mask or code-switch when in foreign environments?
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Do you measure your sense of success based on how you compare to others?
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Can you say with confidence that you are honest with others?
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Do you find yourself “bending the truth” for others?
Section Four: Emotional Maintenance and Ability to Cope/Self-Soothe
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When you are disappointed or hurt, are you able to bounce back without focusing on food or your body?
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Are you fully aware of your triggers?
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Do you have an effective (tried and tested) plan to move past triggering moments, without using behaviors?
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Do you reflect on triggered moments, do you carry a sense of shame or guilt?
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Are you currently in therapy or in the care of a mental health professional?
